Relationships

“If Only I Could Understand Men….”

Men always say they can’t understand women, and that women are so complicated. Well, for many women, it is the exact opposite. Most would give anything to understand what makes men “tick.” Even though women want to know what he’s thinking, men are often reluctant to share what is in their hearts. What’s a woman to do? Rather than describe all the differences between the sexes, it is often more helpful to focus on a few areas that any woman can understand. 1) Men are more sensitive than women. While that might sound silly, the truth is that men don’t have the ability to recover from emotional trauma as effectively as a woman. Because of this, men keep themselves from getting too upset. When a man hears he should just “let his feelings out,” what he translates that into is this, “If I let my...

When it Comes to Men, Some Women Have It…and You Can Too!

Every day in my counseling office, I hear women say some variation of this: “In the last few years, I have had relationships with men who, at first, seemed perfect for me.  They were attentive, attractive and fun to be around.  Then suddenly, as if they knew they had reeled me in, they stopped trying.  They stopped calling as much, stopped taking me out and basically stopped the romantic dance that couples do when they are falling in love.  Was it me?  After all, I think I’m attractive, have a good personality and I work out to keep my body in nice shape.  So why then, do I always end up with the men who become “couch potatoes” at my house?  The men who would rather bring a six pack over and watch football all day and then expect me to fix dinner?  Do I suddenly turn into just a “buddy” to...

“Are You Pushing Him Away?”

So you met a man and everything was going great between the two of you. Or so you thought. Then, quick as lightning, he was out the door. When it comes to relationships, women and men have unique perspectives. From first date etiquette to when to sleep with their partner, the outlooks are diverse. However, when a man pulls away from the woman he’s seeing it’s usually for a specific reason. Here are three HUGE mistakes women make that push men away. They’re clingy. If there’s one thing that’ll send any man running it’s a clingy woman. Sure, it’s nice to be affectionate and show him that he’s on your mind, but when you make him your be and end all, he’ll start to feel smothered. When this happens he’ll try to regain his independence by pulling away. What’s worse is when you make it known tha...

“3 Ways to Make a Man ADDICTED To You”

Do you want to keep your man’s eyes on you and only you? Would you love to make him absolutely addicted to you? If so, you’re in the right place. As you may or may not already know, there are certain things women can do to hook men. The good news is that these have nothing to do with looks, but rather attitude. Once you can get yourself in the right mindset, you’ll not only have his attention, but like a lovesick puppy dog, he won’t leave your side. Here’s what you need to do. Be mysterious. Have you ever left a date feeling mentally drained, or like you knew everything there was to know about a man? If so, you probably had little interest in seeing him again. The same rings true for men. If you’re the kind of woman who takes over a conversation or shares everything from your childhood mem...

“How to Make A Man Commit To You”

When it comes to getting a man to commit, it’s important to know where to start. Since you can’t force a relationship, it’s key that he feels a desire to be with you. In other words, he needs to believe that his life is greater with you in it. That said, you can’t push or pressure him to be with you. If you do, he’ll only pull away. To kickstart a commitment with your man, try these tips on for size. Be decisive. As much as guys like to be in control, they don’t want to have to call the shots for you, too. Instead of counting on him to decide on your dinner plans or weigh in on your outfit options, do it yourself! Men find indecisiveness draining, so if you want to keep him coming back for more it’s crucial that you learn how to be independent and have options of your own. Do the little th...

How To Make Out With A Girl In 40 Seconds Or Less – For Real

If you’ve ever seen a guy in a bar walk up to a girl he didn’t know and make out with her almost immediately, it can be a completely mind-blowing experience. It may seem like it’s magical or out of reach – a special ability or super-power that someone is born with. But it’s not. And it can be broken down into a few simple steps you can follow in order to make the same thing happen for you. In this article, I’m going to break down those steps. The first step is to realize that about 90% of the difference between someone who’s really good with women and someone who’s not so good or mediocre with women, is the ability to spot a woman who’s ready to make out. I know it sounds kind of crazy at first, but it’s true. If you walk into a b...

What Makes And Average Looking Guy Become Instantly “Hot” ?

If you talk to any number of super hot girls and approach them, you will start to see one thing over and over – she is going to test you. If you fail these tests, you will not not hook up with her. Period. You will join the piles of men she’s had to reject because they weren’t confident enough. The GOOD news is, that there is a way to pass these tests nearly 100% of the time. Most really hot girls’ tests are enough to make men run away with their tails between their legs. If you know the technique to passing, then you are going to be in the VERY small percentage of guys who make it through her defenses and are actually a sexual candidate. If you don’t know this one secret technique, you will fail these tests and never gain entrance into the world of attracting...

Avoid Any “Awkward Silence” With This 1 Bizarre Trick

“I’ve heard this tragic story far too many times…” You can feel this excruciating moment coming on from a mile away. The conversation with this cute girl started off great. She’s smiling, laughing, clearly becoming more interested and more attracted as you continue. Then…it happens. Call it a brain fart, a blank mind, a loss for words. The only thing that matters is, it brings the conversation to a complete hault and you can feel her attraction levels for you dropping faster than a drunk girl in stilletos. So what can you do to pull the conversational nose-dive back into the high flying interaction it was? You dig into your toolbox. Your social toolbox, that is. I’ll share with you my absolute favorite conversation-saving tool. This is a guaranteed...

How To Successfully Get A Girl To Kiss You

You’re about to learn, hands down, the best way to successfully get a girl to kiss you without fear of rejection. In the advanced version of this technique, you can even get the girl you’re talking to to lean in to kiss you! So if you’ve ever been afraid of getting rejected going for a kiss OR you’ve gotten “the cheek” you know why having a rock-solid technique to moving in for the kiss is 100% crucial. Going in for the kiss is probably the worst place to face rejection in an interaction with a girl because: 1) You’ve invested a lot of TIME by this point in the interaction, and there simply isn’t enough time in your night to get this far and then hit a brick wall and have to move on. 2) Screwing up this part of the interaction can ruin all ch...